Explained : The Real Secret to Success

We are always told to have a back-up plan when we are endeavouring toward our ultimate goal in life. All this because, if we get failed in the process of achieving our goal we will still have a safe passage you can call. But at the same time we're told from our childhood to concentrate only on a single goal.  Then why a back-up plan? Why this double standard ?

At some point it happens with all of us. Our beliefs get challenged , fear of failure starts to dominate our mind, then the " WHAT IF" talks from people around us .  All this makes us sceptical that whether, we should follow our heart or not , Is a back-up plan equally important ?
Let's first talk about the idea of having a back-up plan. A back-up plan means if something didn't workout then switch to next one , by doing so we are trying to actually cover-up a short temporary failure. The truth is that a failure is never permanent. 
Most of the times its just a temporary defeat. But we have too much fears in our minds that most of the time we don't want to take the risk of not having a backup plan . The fear that if I met failure, what my friends , family,relatives,neighbours,teachers think about me, the fear that if  I met failure people who have faith in me and love me might not be happy from me and so on.

So the question is ,should we have a backup plan as a safe passage in a situation of failure(now onwards I will say temporary defeat). Well the answer is , you shouldn't if you have plan to switch to another goal. There's also a slight probability of facing temporary defeat in the way of every goal. So  what's the guarantee that you will not face temporary defeat in your another goal which is not that much on your priority list.

Ok , you all got it .  Then ,what to do when we met temporary defeat?  The answer is simple , "Try again" . But if again temporary defeat is there then again "TRY AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN "  , keep trying until you have succeed in your goal.
Don't forget to learn from all your mistakes .If you met temporary defeat then its a sign most of the times that your plan didn't worked out. So change your plan not your goal , focus on your single ultimate goal and one day success will be yours.

Keep reading books , if you are a graduate or having a job that doesn't mean you stop improving . "Think and grow Rich" by NAPOLEAN HILL is one of the best book unleashing secrets to success . I would like to share a story with you  all from this book.

A long while ago , a great warrior faced a situation which made it necessary  for him to make a decision which insured his success on the battlefield. He was about to send his armies against a powerful foe, whose men outnumbered his own. He loaded his soldiers into boats ,sailed to the enemy's country,unloaded soldiers and equipment , then gave the order to burn the ships that had carried them. Addressing his men before the first battle , he said ," You see the boats going up in smoke. That means we cannot leave these shores alive unless we win ! We now have no choice -we win -or we perish! They won.

Yeah ! you heard it right they won . So you all also needs to burn all your backup plans to get success  to maintain a state of that burning desire for success.
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